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posted by: fractalmom (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (5:39 am) lovely post. hope you don't have to sell and they can come to you, if that is what is best for all concerned? posted by: inkspector (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (6:25 am) Sounds like you are in the beginning phases of a transition time. It is hard to give up a home you really like! Good luck to you. Could you pass the syrup please? posted by: OldSchool (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (7:51 am) Glad to hear your time off has been so enjoyable. Just the fact that you are considering selling your home when it obviously is important to you seems to show your commitment and love to the relationship. That should tell you that your priorities are shifting around some and you have something pretty special. I have a feeling that whatever decision you make, it will be right if it is done with your relationship in mind (& heart). Enjoy your Sunday. posted by: LadyG (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (9:03 am) You have a real decision to make my friend and I am sure you will make the right one. I personally would lease the house since you love it so, but it's clear that you have stromg feeling for SL. We don't know what the future holds but things could change and SL might be able to make the change. posted by: squirrelzone (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (9:09 am) Best of luck, I don't think you need it though. You and sweet lady have so much to offer each other. Apology? Not needed here. Live, love and enjoy what it has to offer. posted by: auntconi (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (10:36 am) A lot can happen in a couple of months you know. All the best to you and SL! ((hugs)) Oh, and no apologies necessary ~ at all! posted by: bawdy (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (12:13 pm) It sounds like you're approaching a crossroads. Consider option 3. Move in with Pastor Dave. In perspective, your choices don't look so bad whichever you decide upon! posted by: PastorDave (reply) post date: 07.06.08 (6:44 pm) I'd be too cautious to sell a place I truly love for the sake of a dream, even a great dream. I'm not saying such is good or right. So, whatever you do, I wish you the very best. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:23 am) Reply to: fractalmom Thanks fm. Wish I really knew what was best for all concerned. On the other hand, it is just a house. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:24 am) Reply to: inkspector You're welcome to the syrup, but it's that "lite" crap. posted by: emerging (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:24 am) Reply to: PastorDave How does a dream become a reality? posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:25 am) Reply to: OldSchool Oh I seem to be committed alright. Maybe I need to BE committed. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:27 am) Reply to: emerging I already told you. You walk around your dream three times and throw a stone backwards over your head. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:29 am) Reply to: LadyG Time will tell, although I think time has been whispering in my ear for some time now. posted by: emerging (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:29 am) Reply to: surrogate I thought you were talking about Russian Roullette - caveman style. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:31 am) Reply to: squirrelzone Thanks SZ. I already offered her all I have to offer, but for some reason she doesn't seem to place much value on old comic books. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:35 am) Reply to: auntconi I know. I keep telling myself that. Thanks ac. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:39 am) Reply to: bawdy I asked PastorDave about that, but he said he already has a dog. posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (5:42 am) Reply to: PastorDave Let's see, decisions, decisions, decisions... Love vs. brick and mortar. Come on. You'd choose the same way, you old softie. posted by: PastorDave (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (6:28 am) Reply to: emerging Great question. I've missed out on a good bit of reality in life, simply because I was too cautious. Conversely, I've pursued a few dreams, setting aside caution only to sadly discover the reality wasn't nearly as attractive and good as the dream. And that makes you gunshy. But, what good is life without passion and risk? I'm thinking far too many people live boring and sad and predictable and lonely lives because they are simply not willing to take the risk. My mom, at 87 years of age, married a man of the same age. I call that crazy. Sure enough, they had about two years of complicated marriage, then he died this past week. It was a foolish thing for her to do. But I think I begrudgingly admire her for throwing caudion and prudence to the wind and doing somethng "crazy" even at this time of life. But I'll reserve full opinion until the lawyers and the family of her deceased husband finish their efforts! posted by: PastorDave (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (6:34 am) Reply to: surrogate Well, the reality is that, lots of times, brick and mortar last a lot longer. Heck, there's always this battle between the heart and mind. And, I guess, with honesty, I'd most likely set aside reason and probability and do something crazy. Seems to me you are already a bit unbalanced, just nothing they can lock you up for. posted by: emerging (reply) post date: 07.07.08 (9:32 pm) Reply to: PastorDave What good is having a nice, solid house if you have noone to share it with? Not that a person NEEDS a relationship in order to feel fulfilled, but if you "find" someone who's ready and willing to build a life with you - who adds to the love, joy, and laughter in your heart, what then? I'm not discounting the value (and comfortable security) of having a roof over your head, but even in that, there are no guarantees - otherwise insurance companies would be out of business! posted by: almsthvn (reply) post date: 07.08.08 (6:55 pm) *hugs My vote? If you truly love the place and it could play a role in your future, lease. Particularly in this real-estate market. Ya know that Michael and I met via this hyar computer-thingy and dated long distance for a year. My best pal (who had done something similar) highly recommended the way she and her beau did it - he moved closer to her but rented his own place for 6 months. This allowed them to explore their relationship on a more local level but keep their independence. She also had children living with her and they were a little concerned about the impact of the new relationship on them. Living separately let them ease into it more slowly. It also offered an "escape hatch" in case things didn't work out so smoothly "up close" as they had from afar ;) Naturally, M and I considered this suggestion and ignored it altogether, but that's coz we're such young impetuous kids ;) I'm supremely glad to see you both happy :) Hope things go smoothly(ish) for your mom. and happy belated bday to Matt! posted by: surrogate (reply) post date: 07.08.08 (7:39 pm) Reply to: emerging You defending your turf? What? I'm turf? Cool. (I thought I was just dirt.) |
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