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Wonder if I have powdered sugar?
07.06.08 (8:05 am)   [edit]

Good morning Boys and Girls.

There's a beautiful woman sleeping in the other room. I don't think she's even snoring, or if she is I can't hear it through the door. Maybe I'll make her breakfast in bed this morning before she heads back home in a few hours.

It's been a very busy two weeks and I'm sad to see them end. -Tired though. Getting to be a bit much to do the back and forth all the time. Hoped things would get to the point where it might be possible for them to come here to live by now, but that doesn't look like it's going to happen any time soon, if at all. Guess it's time to suck it up and either lease this place to some lucky soul or sell it outright. Either prospect makes me a little sad. I'd made the decision to do so a few months ago, but decided to wait to see what happened on the off chance things could get worked out.

Never thought I could come to love a house the way I love this one. It's not a fancy place by any stretch of the imagination, nor is it overtly large, but I love the layout, and certainly cooking in the kitchen here is a real treat. -Love the front porch and back deck and the way the hills surround the place making the semi-rural setting feel even more private than it really is. Holy schmackers. -Sounds like I'm writing a real estate ad doesn't it? Maybe I'm getting ready to.

I'm fifty-one years old. I've come to terms with my own age of late, but damn, my baby brother turns 40 today. That's just wrong. He's still a kid with his whole life in front of him. He's in high school impressing the hell out of the music department faculty. He's in college at Oberlin writing short stories and telling me about his experience listening to Margaret Atwood talk about her writing. Just after college, he's getting ready to go to England and Europe to bum around for six months. He's home now and writing his song "Circuitry" that seems to reference the trip.

No. These days he's a Dad with two kids and a wife and a house and a job, who still makes time to write his music and perform some. His is the best of us in my family, and he's always been someone of whom I'm especially proud; not because he's any brighter or more talented than the rest of us, but because he's always made such efficient use of his brains and abilities while staying focused on what's most important.  He has - for lack of a better term - his priorities straight.

Happy Birthday Matt.

Now... French Toast for Sweet Lady? What do you think? Hmmm. I'll figure out something.


Be good to everyone.

 

By the way, my apologies for not replying to comments the past week or two. Just been busy as all get out. Please forgive me. 

 


posted by: fractalmom (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (5:39 am)

lovely post. hope you don't have to sell and they can come to you, if that is what is best for all concerned?



posted by: inkspector (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (6:25 am)

Sounds like you are in the beginning phases of a transition time.
It is hard to give up a home you really like!
Good luck to you. Could you pass the syrup please?



posted by: OldSchool (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (7:51 am)

Glad to hear your time off has been so enjoyable.

Just the fact that you are considering selling your home when it obviously is important to you seems to show your commitment and love to the relationship. That should tell you that your priorities are shifting around some and you have something pretty special. I have a feeling that whatever decision you make, it will be right if it is done with your relationship in mind (& heart).
Enjoy your Sunday.



posted by: LadyG (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (9:03 am)

You have a real decision to make my friend and I am sure you will make the right one. I personally would lease the house since you love it so, but it's clear that you have stromg feeling for SL. We don't know what the future holds but things could change and SL might be able to make the change.



posted by: squirrelzone (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (9:09 am)

Best of luck, I don't think you need it though. You and sweet lady have so much to offer each other.

Apology? Not needed here. Live, love and enjoy what it has to offer.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (10:36 am)

A lot can happen in a couple of months you know.
All the best to you and SL!
((hugs))


Oh, and no apologies necessary ~ at all!



posted by: bawdy (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (12:13 pm)

It sounds like you're approaching a crossroads. Consider option 3. Move in with Pastor Dave. In perspective, your choices don't look so bad whichever you decide upon!



posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 07.06.08 (6:44 pm)

I'd be too cautious to sell a place I truly love for the sake of a dream, even a great dream. I'm not saying such is good or right. So, whatever you do, I wish you the very best.



posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:23 am)

Reply to: fractalmom

Thanks fm. Wish I really knew what was best for all concerned. On the other hand, it is just a house.



posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:24 am)

Reply to: inkspector

You're welcome to the syrup, but it's that "lite" crap.




posted by: emerging (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:24 am)

Reply to: PastorDave
How does a dream become a reality?



posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:25 am)

Reply to: OldSchool

Oh I seem to be committed alright. Maybe I need to BE committed.




posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:27 am)

Reply to: emerging

I already told you. You walk around your dream three times and throw a stone backwards over your head.





posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:29 am)

Reply to: LadyG

Time will tell, although I think time has been whispering in my ear for some time now.




posted by: emerging (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:29 am)

Reply to: surrogate
I thought you were talking about Russian Roullette - caveman style.



posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:31 am)

Reply to: squirrelzone

Thanks SZ. I already offered her all I have to offer, but for some reason she doesn't seem to place much value on old comic books.



posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:35 am)

Reply to: auntconi

I know. I keep telling myself that. Thanks ac.




posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:39 am)

Reply to: bawdy

I asked PastorDave about that, but he said he already has a dog.



posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (5:42 am)

Reply to: PastorDave

Let's see, decisions, decisions, decisions... Love vs. brick and mortar. Come on. You'd choose the same way, you old softie.




posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (6:28 am)

Reply to: emerging
Great question. I've missed out on a good bit of reality in life, simply because I was too cautious. Conversely, I've pursued a few dreams, setting aside caution only to sadly discover the reality wasn't nearly as attractive and good as the dream. And that makes you gunshy. But, what good is life without passion and risk? I'm thinking far too many people live boring and sad and predictable and lonely lives because they are simply not willing to take the risk. My mom, at 87 years of age, married a man of the same age. I call that crazy. Sure enough, they had about two years of complicated marriage, then he died this past week. It was a foolish thing for her to do. But I think I begrudgingly admire her for throwing caudion and prudence to the wind and doing somethng "crazy" even at this time of life. But I'll reserve full opinion until the lawyers and the family of her deceased husband finish their efforts!



posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (6:34 am)

Reply to: surrogate
Well, the reality is that, lots of times, brick and mortar last a lot longer. Heck, there's always this battle between the heart and mind. And, I guess, with honesty, I'd most likely set aside reason and probability and do something crazy. Seems to me you are already a bit unbalanced, just nothing they can lock you up for.



posted by: emerging (reply)
post date: 07.07.08 (9:32 pm)

Reply to: PastorDave
What good is having a nice, solid house if you have noone to share it with? Not that a person NEEDS a relationship in order to feel fulfilled, but if you "find" someone who's ready and willing to build a life with you - who adds to the love, joy, and laughter in your heart, what then? I'm not discounting the value (and comfortable security) of having a roof over your head, but even in that, there are no guarantees - otherwise insurance companies would be out of business!



posted by: almsthvn (reply)
post date: 07.08.08 (6:55 pm)

*hugs

My vote? If you truly love the place and it could play a role in your future, lease. Particularly in this real-estate market.

Ya know that Michael and I met via this hyar computer-thingy and dated long distance for a year. My best pal (who had done something similar) highly recommended the way she and her beau did it - he moved closer to her but rented his own place for 6 months. This allowed them to explore their relationship on a more local level but keep their independence. She also had children living with her and they were a little concerned about the impact of the new relationship on them. Living separately let them ease into it more slowly. It also offered an "escape hatch" in case things didn't work out so smoothly "up close" as they had from afar ;)

Naturally, M and I considered this suggestion and ignored it altogether, but that's coz we're such young impetuous kids ;)

I'm supremely glad to see you both happy :)

Hope things go smoothly(ish) for your mom. and happy belated bday to Matt!




posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.08.08 (7:39 pm)

Reply to: emerging

You defending your turf?

What? I'm turf? Cool. (I thought I was just dirt.)

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